Mr. and Mrs. Judges

"so think about that before you judge someone"

we often say, don't judge book by its cover, because we are afraid of being judged by people. but somehow, we were starting to give a mark about something bad or something good. we were starting to give our opinions in public. maybe some of us never realized if our opinions is one of those "judging moments". well unfortunately, maybe I never realized if I have ever done that too. but since long time ago, I joint in NJBC (Non-Judging Breakfast Club) well maybe it's fictional club from one of my favorite show but this club is awesome. you have your moments, ups or downs, but the clubs never judge you or either worse, leave you. nowadays, if people were start judging, they will eventually find the bad sign. whether they want to judge in good ways but people can't help to find the bad ways too though. and when you were judging, you will went through the "Gossiping Time". and after that you will start to think bad about something that you were judging at that time. and that is not the right thing to do. right?

some people might say, they don't care if they were being judged or talked behind their back by someone else, but in their deepest heart, they do mind. if they didn't, in the first place they won't say if they didn't care. who is with me? just like me. I'm not the type of a person who will walks confidently and bravely around Mr and Mrs judges. I'm afraid of being judged. I'm afraid if I do something terrible, they're gonna hate me for the rest of my life. I'm afraid if I put too much sugar in my cup, they're gonna think I'm calories buddies. I'm afraid if I talk with a person, from the heart to heart, eyes to eyes, they're gonna thing if I was in love. If I walk in public and people were staring at me, I'm afraid if they're gonna think I'm some hyper weirdo ugly person. I'm afraid if I show my bad sides, they will leave me. oh believe me, you will when you get to know the real me. basically, I'm afraid of who am I in their eyes. sometimes, in the end of the day I'm gonna say Fuck It and I'm gonna do it on my own way, but I so rarely do that. so this is between me, rock, and hard place. there are so many things I wanna say but I'm too afraid of other people's eyes.

my friends always told me to don't listen to people, people is pfffttt, but I can't help it. I'm surrounded by people. They have eyes, they have their lips that moves constantly every time their eyes sees something, they have ears that get those new opinions from other people too, and they have brain to resemblance those information.  since I'm afraid of all of those things, being judged and etc, I'm starting to less judging people. I am not saying I always think the best from person, but when the bad opinions comes through my mind, I was starting to think, do I want to be judged like that? and somehow it's help. and when it's not and my opinion is actually right, I won't think any less of them. because they have their reason to be like that. put yourself in their shoes, it will help you a lot.

so, Mr and Mrs Judges
I don't need your help to judge me because I'm already doing it often, all the time actually. It won't hurt to doing it less. thank you.