at least i'll take out that card when the person was intolerable and literally crossed out the line (like when they hit you, slap your face, bite (not in the romantic and sensual way(i mean in the good way)), compulsive liar and a cheater). but most of the times, i try to bite down my tongue for not letting this advice slipped from my lips too lightly, nor too soon. but it can't be too late either. like, when someone was in a relationship for 3 years and there's a sudden change from their loved ones, i can't easily tell them to break up. like, 3 years are more than enough to know someone, inside and outside. i just tell them to trace, what was going on with their significant other until that unfortunate incident happened. and if it was only for, like 3 months, and they already hit/slap/cheat on you, i won't hesitate to tell you to break up with her/him. since it happens on early stage of relationship, where you build your relationship's foundation, where you haven't gone too deep. believe me, if they already slap/hit/cheat on you once, even before she/he becomes your spouse, you don't want to imagine what she/he capable of after marriage. since marriage life is not an easy path to be begin with. say no to harm relationship, dump that garbage if he/she has ever tried to do such things to you.
so, my dear friends, the bottom line is, you know your limits. i can't tell you what to do, i can't ever tell people to change nor i don't want to do it. this is why i sometimes always in the middle of an agony when i try to give people advice. hell, i'm no better adviser. i wish i just could wrap my arms around you and take the pain away. the hardest thing to do is watching people you care about was in the hard place, struggling with their pain caused by people thought they love. is it even love in the first place? who knows.
p.s. summer time is around the corner, can you already feel the heat?
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