tersasar

they say, "If you try to please everybody, somebody's not going to like it, and you are not be able to please everybody." and that leads me to "try to please yourself first". I don't know if I'm doing wrong to please myself or what but it seems, I did some effort to myself at some point, it doesn't fully make me happy. and I go back to statement "to please everybody." and it cornered me with "you've done that but what did you get?" -- a broken trust. now I loss myself.